Rollo May
I have probably posted this quote before-my apologies if I have
I was thinking about it again today

friendship in a relationship is really important to me
liking to be with the other, just to be in their presence 
taking a moment to squeeze their hand
while they are busy working
or when going for a walk together
to let them know you like who they are
to let them know you are there for them

complete acceptance 
and so much happiness shared